Do words actually carry a big impact?

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Saying positive things to a patient does not mean being impracticable or giving false hope. Sincerity is still a treasure in the medical field. But the point is finding a positive way of saying the negative inevitable. Words have impact, as they can create longevity.
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A huge part of recovery from an illness is mental. If your doctor is pessimistic about your outcome you will likely give up fighting. Of course, some illnesses are terminal, but patients can live longer if they have some hope from their doctors.
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Talking to a patient revolves around knowing how to address his situation. How to talk to him is as important as what is being said. This is why professional training in the medical field is very important and crucial because you are trained on how to affect a patient with words. Do not hide necessary information from a patient, but ensure that such information is uncovered carefully.
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I do agree with the author that we should assure the patient about his situation rather telling the actual truth and make him even more critical. Its logical to lie at the beginning and say the truth later when the patient ha stabalised.
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In my experience, I haven’t come across any medical practitioner who lies. Compassion and empathy is a huge part of their training and that is the advice which the book gives. You do have to choose your words carefully because the patient is going through a roller coaster of emotions, the inner turmoil and trying to keep a brave face is difficult so one must tread carefully around them as one wrong word can set off a domino effect. Lying is not encouraged but giving the truth empathically and in episodes is a good advice.
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Now this is a tricky one. According to normal practice, at least what I've been exposed to thus far, honesty is the best policy. Just do it blatantly. On the contrary, in some cases, caution and empathy ought to be applied, in my opinion. Patients ail differently and at different levels. I propose that words be chosen carefully, as the author suggests.
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The actual situation should be kept away from the patient if it's a critical situation. Creating optimism in the mind of the patient helps him heal faster. We should be more after his recovery than telling the truth because a lot of patients may not be able to handle the truth in that situation.
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I think it is very important. You need to be honest with your words and body language needs to match. If they are not on matching you are giving the person mixed messages. This coupled with an already potential stressful situation can cause many various problems.
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Sometimes the only thing keeping a person alive, is the belief that they will make it. It is of utmost importance to remember this because if you take that away, you will be the direct cause of death. Words shape beliefs, beliefs shape reality. The placebo effect is well known and documented.
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I agree with the author. Telling the patient the truth is vital because everyone should know their health status. I believe the way that truth is conveyed is the key factor. The right approach and words can never be underestimated.

I also believe that proffering solutions no matter how insignificant can also help. This could be offering them emotional support or even alternate therapies. Anything that can give hope (but not false hope) especially in cases of terminal illnesses can go a long way.
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Surprisingly, there are numerous interpretations of this thought-provoking discourse. However, in my opinion, speaking the truth is crucial, especially if the patient is already in critical state. Despite the unrelenting circumstance, medical practitioners still have a responsibility to give them hope and encourage them to think healthier. In the event of such occurrences, integrity and candor remain the most viable options.
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Sushan wrote: 01 Oct 2021, 00:06
Watch your spoken and body language. Reassure without patronizing, and let nothing that you say or do cause him increased distress.
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The author says to be careful about what you say when you manage a patient, despite his/her actual condition. Causing panic in the patient can be a disadvantage, I agree, but at the same time I think it is important for the patient to know the truth.

What do you think? Should we keep the patient blind just to avoid him/her getting panicked, or should we reveal the truth no matter how hard it is? Do words have an actual impact on the outcome of the patient?
Yes, words have an impact on a patient, but as a retired nurse, I believe the patient has the right to know what is going on with them. The information can be given gently but honestly. A nurse needs to inform the patient when the nurse has time to stay with them for a while. You should be especially careful with someone who is unconscious, or in a coma. It is unknown if that type of patient can hear you or not. That would not be the time to tell them what is actually going on!
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Since this book is for those who want to be prepared when going off-grid or no-grid, you're already in maybe a panic situation. There's a difference between being able to say, "This is gonna hurt." and "You're bleeding so much you will definitely die." Words do carry a big impact and I would be in favor of keeping the person calm so I would not tell them the entire truth if it meant creating more panic.
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In my opinion, this is a debatable and contextual question. It sure is a common knowledge that words make or break people, but hiding the truth might not be exactly the right thing to do.

Let me explain, if there is no positive growth but the doctors encourage the patient by telling that they are getting better, maybe that would have a positive impact on the overall condition of the patient. But if they have some serious illness with inevitable death as the end result, they should be made aware of the condition in full truthfulness. They might be assured that they might have a chance at survival (if there is some) but it shouldn't be hidden from them.

All these are my opinion and I am no medical professional, so if you feel like this is some wrong information, please correct me.
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I think telling a patient truth is so important but timing is also equally important. Some truths should be reserved for certain appointed time; you know what panic can cause. So, I think the author is right here. Words also kill.
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