How To Say GoodBye To Toxic Relationship

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How To Say GoodBye To Toxic Relationship

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Deciding to end a relationship might not be the same as actually leaving. The more entangled you are, the more logistic might have to be worked out. It's ok to take your time and plan the exist and the next phase. I've found that the hardest relationship to dysfunctional. The stress definitely takes it's toll. That's why you might need some help, seek guidance from a coach, therapist or a really grounded friend the kind that loves you unconditionally and isn't afraid to (metaphorically) slap you back to reality. If you fear for your safety in any way, definitely build a strong team to support you in the transition.

A story about a struggle which couples face when them no longer love each other. It is difficult for them to decide whether to stay together or leave each other for good. One last try to salvage their love comes in form of a trip to Adele's concert.
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Not an easy task, especially when the other party is not willing to let go.
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Oliver Ekaso wrote:Not an easy task, especially when the other party is not willing to let go.
You are right
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I think at first it can be hard to realize that you are in fact a victim to a toxic relationship. Once you do, it can be like climbing Everest to leave. In some cases I think it can be fear that makes it hard to leave, or dependency, or even the memories of when you thought things were great. In the end, if it is bad enough and you have courage too, you will end it. I was in a very toxic relationship for years and when I finally decided to say goodbye it was scary, hard and quite the journey to make it through it. Now after some years I can honestly say it was the best thing I ever did for myself.
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Every relationship is unique and have its own problems. So in order to end it, I think it requires a lot of will and action.
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JadeK wrote:I think at first it can be hard to realize that you are in fact a victim to a toxic relationship. Once you do, it can be like climbing Everest to leave. In some cases I think it can be fear that makes it hard to leave, or dependency, or even the memories of when you thought things were great. In the end, if it is bad enough and you have courage too, you will end it. I was in a very toxic relationship for years and when I finally decided to say goodbye it was scary, hard and quite the journey to make it through it. Now after some years I can honestly say it was the best thing I ever did for myself.
Thank God you have the courage to leave such relationship. But do u believe that a toxic relationship can turn to perfect relationship when consellor's are involved in the issue? In a case you are unable to forget the good times you guys spent together.
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Michelle92 wrote:Every relationship is unique and have its own problems. So in order to end it, I think it requires a lot of will and action.
A lot of will and action, how?
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It's not easy but you just to know your destination and know how to go about it.
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It's a very difficult thing to do but I agree with you that it's important to have a team to support you along the way.
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I think it is important that the toxic relationship ends as soon as possible, as clearly and precisely as possible. Of course, this is not easy and one should not act ruthlessly.
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Innocent chinenye wrote: 29 Sep 2017, 01:44
Michelle92 wrote:Every relationship is unique and have its own problems. So in order to end it, I think it requires a lot of will and action.
A lot of will and action, how?
Until you are really determined to leave, you might not be able to especially if your partner is emotionally manipulative.
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