Could you date someone who doesn't read?
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Re: Could you date someone who doesn't read?
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This is a bit of a point of frustration for him, actually. He would like to get into reading, but he himself has trouble concentrating on it, and when he does read it is a slow and laborious process for him. (He doesn't, as far as I can tell, have any learning disabilities like dyslexia. He just doesn't have a lot of reading experience.) However, we have found that reading books aloud together helps him get into it more--we did this very thing with the Harry Potter series, in fact. He has also read The Hobbit and Game of Thrones, which, while not the most difficult reads in the world, are not necessarily for beginners, either.
His not reading does not detract from our relationship at all. I read books, he plays video games, we both have cats who sit on our laps, and life goes on.
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I actually did and it never worked out!!!
What a shock on me!!!! They complained how am always on my book I should date the book instead!!!
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People who don't read will not be interested in important things. They will have little or nothing to contribute in fixing our world, not because they weren't born with the ability to be creative or to accomplish, but because they have deliberately deprived themselves of the regular dose of knowledge needed to take them to the top. It is really important that we surround ourselves with people who are oozing with knowledge and wisdom so we can seap it in and ooze some ourselves.
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Because I am a widow, disabled, and poor, I sought dates through Craigslist. What a zoo! Most of the replies were either incomplete sentences, or simply a picture of some guy's erect member. Yech! I persisted, until in 2016 I started dating another reader, who is also writing. We love the same types of books.
The odds of a woman my age finding a second partner are astronomical. I actually had a better chance of winning the lottery. I am living with my new partner now, and we are building a library together. This is definitely one for the books!
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For me, reading is food for the soul... so I might be asking him, "what do you feed your soul?" while hoping he won't choke me or something. Anyway, love has no standards... that's what most classic novels taught me.
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That's really awesome!!! I wish I can find a guy who'd build a library with me <3 I really wanted a library of my own though!vlboyd53 wrote: ↑29 Jan 2018, 09:03 After my husband died in 2009, I began trying to date again. Near the top of my list of "must haves" was "Must love to read." Not only did I want someone who reads regularly, I needed them to enjoy Science Fiction, Fantasy, and Horror. At age 60+, I finally have the time to write, and I am, in those genra.
Because I am a widow, disabled, and poor, I sought dates through Craigslist. What a zoo! Most of the replies were either incomplete sentences, or simply a picture of some guy's erect member. Yech! I persisted, until in 2016 I started dating another reader, who is also writing. We love the same types of books.
The odds of a woman my age finding a second partner are astronomical. I actually had a better chance of winning the lottery. I am living with my new partner now, and we are building a library together. This is definitely one for the books!
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I agree..."... being excited about a wonderful book can turn a non-reader onto something new." So true!lapowers wrote: ↑10 Jan 2007, 07:27 Reading for me is a hobby that I love to endulge. Not everyone has a passion for reading nor the patience. For me, I truly enjoy getting lost in the pages of a good book. You could also expand the question forward to apply to readers: Could I date someone who did not enjoy the same books as I do?
Hopefully a reader and non reader can exist in this world and perhaps the reader, being excited about a wonderful book can turn a non reader onto something new.
I've always felt the ones who dislike reading just have yet to pick up a good book!
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I never thought I could find a guy whom loves reading as much as me... but I DID! I figured it would be something I did on my own, or if I had a spare moment, and now five years later: not only do I have a boyfriend whom loves books as much as I do, but we even make it a point to go on reading dates--in fact, they're our favorite kind of dates! Those men do exist! You wrote this post a long time ago, so maybe you're reading with him now!inkcharmed wrote: ↑10 Jan 2007, 14:42 I've always considered dating a guy who read to be a fantasy. I only meet a few who do read for pleasure, and they don't turn out to be the people that I have chemistry with. So to all of you who can't imagine any other way... I am jealous.
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Aww! I love this story---HOORAY!! And building a library?!! I'm jealous...rejtastic81 wrote: ↑29 Jan 2018, 11:04That's really awesome!!! I wish I can find a guy who'd build a library with me <3 I really wanted a library of my own though!vlboyd53 wrote: ↑29 Jan 2018, 09:03 After my husband died in 2009, I began trying to date again. Near the top of my list of "must haves" was "Must love to read." Not only did I want someone who reads regularly, I needed them to enjoy Science Fiction, Fantasy, and Horror. At age 60+, I finally have the time to write, and I am, in those genra.
Because I am a widow, disabled, and poor, I sought dates through Craigslist. What a zoo! Most of the replies were either incomplete sentences, or simply a picture of some guy's erect member. Yech! I persisted, until in 2016 I started dating another reader, who is also writing. We love the same types of books.
The odds of a woman my age finding a second partner are astronomical. I actually had a better chance of winning the lottery. I am living with my new partner now, and we are building a library together. This is definitely one for the books!
Hopefully we get to review one of your books on the site! Good luck to you both!
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Haha, I've had the same experience! He would get irritated by my continuous reading habits! Alas, it did not work out. Shocker...Sweetie_banana wrote: ↑28 Jan 2018, 21:15
I actually did and it never worked out!!!
What a shock on me!!!! They complained how am always on my book I should date the book instead!!!